WHAT TURNS ME OFF---

there are a lot of things about guys my age (and even those not my age) that turns me off. As in like, totally turns me off.

First, immaturity. A lot of guys my age are just so immature "acting" like their all grown-ups and invincible. And when I say acting, I mean ACTING. Like they are trying to appear matured but only managed to look like they're children in grown up clothes.

I don't like guys who doesn't seem to know what they really want in life; no sense of direction, no sense of who or what they are. I don't like those who cannot decide for themselves and those who cannot take responsibility of their actions.

Matured people are responsible. A lot of guys my age are not. They only think of the present and never of the future; a lot of them never consider the consequences of their actions and are therefore often caught unprepared when it finally catch up with them.

Second, Smokers. One word: YUCKY. Two words: Totally Irritating. No matter how handsome or attractive the guy is, if I see him smoking he is instantly cross-off the list.

I don't see the need of even considering seeing myself with a man who seemed to be bent on damaging his lungs. If he wants to die now then what is the point getting attracted to him? Besides, second hand smoke is more dangerous right? So who wouldn't be turned off with somebody who wants to kill you with his every breath?

Third, the just-because attitude. I hate guys who would only court girls just because they find them beautiful and has the potential to be a good decoration. I hate it when their only reason for courting the girl is because she is physically attractive or just because they feel like they like to. Most of all, I hate it when you ask them "what do you like most about her?" and they would only say, "She's beautiful".

A girl should be loved not for her physical attributes alone. Love a girl as a person and not only because you think having somebody as beautiful as her is a bargain. Beauty is not everything you know.

Fourth, the every-girl-in-the-world-likes-me attitude. One of the many things that guys should learn is that, it is so rude, not to mention stupid and improper, to ask for a girl's number before asking for her name. No decent person with decent intentions would ask for somebody's number without knowing the person first. Girls, any guy who asks for your number first without bothering to ask for your name is a jerk.

Guys like these think that every girl in the world likes them and so would be dying to give their numbers to them. What a bunch of jerks!

Fifth, the I-am-sweet-to-no-one-else-but-you type. Guys who are respectful, polite, helpful (and every other positive attributes in the world) to the girl they like but not to others. They carry your things for you but would not do it for others. They would offer you a sit but not others. They're good to you but not to others.

Guys like these are worst than jerks. Trying to impress the girl they like by showing how good they are and at the same time how shallow they can be. If you really want to impress a girl, show her that you are more than just pretending to be a good boy. But you really want to keep the girl forever, better show her your true colors---it could save you the effort of pretending and assure you that the girl really likes you as you are.

...and of course there are more but I am getting tired of typing it. Why don't you share the things that turns you off in a guy (or a girl) instead?...