Over the past few days, I've been ultra busy. That is a no brainer, with my calculation of how many hours I use up doing certain activities, it should naturally put some weight on my shoulders. Over the past few days I have had some great conversations with friends. Both random and serious. Those conversations have yet again sparked my curiosity. Why? Because that's just how I am. From time to time I like to question some things in life. I question the systems we follow unconsciously, stereotype morals, my personality traits - flaws and all. These thoughts play with my mind and personally, I enjoy the thinking process.
I am a strong believer that there are always two sides to the story. And never should one judge the other without knowing both sides. You may hear different sides, different opinions etc. but that alone should be enough for you to make judgement on how to see the situation. You should always try to understand, even if it a difficult process. I try, I really do. And once I feel like I do understand, its then I can make some educated decisions.
I am a strong believer that there are always two sides to the story. And never should one judge the other without knowing both sides. You may hear different sides, different opinions etc. but that alone should be enough for you to make judgement on how to see the situation. You should always try to understand, even if it a difficult process. I try, I really do. And once I feel like I do understand, its then I can make some educated decisions.
But one question pooped up that actually made me think.
When I am asked these questions, a million little things come to mind, but they aren't bad. They are pretty much common things. Its funny how we can easily pick out the bad flaws of someone else, but when it comes to us, we can only think of the little things that mean nothing. To shake thing up, and finish the question, I suggested we picked a bad habit from each other, instead of ourselves.
What is one bad habit of yours?
When I am asked these questions, a million little things come to mind, but they aren't bad. They are pretty much common things. Its funny how we can easily pick out the bad flaws of someone else, but when it comes to us, we can only think of the little things that mean nothing. To shake thing up, and finish the question, I suggested we picked a bad habit from each other, instead of ourselves.
just like what a friend of mine said: "Unless you have walked on their shoes, make no room for judgment."
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Thanks Pards. I'll miss you. :(
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